In 2003, I lacked confidence, my emotions were out of control, and I had no idea why my life was the way that it was. This pain and confusion made me look for answers and to reach out for guidance.
I needed to understand what was going on and find out what I could do to change my life; I wasn't willing to tolerate what was going on any longer. In the beginning, this started with me reading books, and, as the years went by, I worked with different therapists and healers, had a number of mentors, and trained in a number of different healing modalities and mind-based techniques.
A Turning Point
After many, many years of searching, I came to see that it wasn't just a case of me lacking self-confidence and being emotionally unsettled; it was due to something far more significant. A deeply depriving childhood had played a big part in what was going on.
As a result of this, the work I did on my mind only got me so far, and this made me look into what was taking place at a deeper level, in my body. I came to see that I was carrying a lot of emotional pain and trauma.
Some of this pain had to be cried out, and some had to be shaken out. This also involved the pain that I experienced after the loss of my father in two thousand and eleven. These moments pushed me to the limit, but I had hope, and I wasn't willing to give up.
To this day, I am still working through pain, so I don't want to create the impression that I'm fully healed - whatever that means. Still, I can see how far I have come on my journey.
Writing And Expression
Towards the end of two thousand and eight, I started writing a journal and a few years after that, in October two thousand and ten, I started writing what were later called articles. At this time, I have written three thousand, nine hundred and seventy-seven articles on psychology, and conducted nine interviews.
Communication is another area that interests me, and Communication Made Easy is where I write about communication and offer consultations. So far, I have written twenty-four articles.
I have also written poetry, and this can be found under the name - A Dialogue With The Heart.
Why I Do This Work
Due to what I have been through, I know what it is like to feel totally helpless, as though there is no way out, and to question if life is even worth living. This was one of the reasons why I wanted to share my understanding with others and to assist them.
Writing articles, books and how-to guides, along with creating audiobooks and courses, and offering personalised consultations, allows me to do this. Over the years, I have worked with numerous therapists and healers, studied different approaches and tried many different techniques, so I don't believe that there is a one-approach-fits-all; each person is different.